Missions Paul

Some people reading this today may well understand the pain in the next two verses.

“When Esau was forty years old, he married Judith daughter of Beeri the Hittite, and also Basemath daughter of Elon the Hittite. They were a source of grief to Isaac and Rebekah.” (Genesis 26 v 34-35)

Two verses, and behind it is pain.

Just two verses, but packed with relational pain.

We don’t know why. We can speculate. Cultural differences, faith, personality clashes, we just don’t know. What we do know is this: the parents were heartbroken.

We will read next about how Jacob stole Esau’s blessing. Jacob, we know, was the deceiver. Isaac’s blindness made the deception easier. However, we see here that Esau, the eldest brother, didn’t just sell his birthright for the cost of a meal; he married outside their faith community. His decisions seemed selfish, driven by immediate gratification with no thought for the consequences.

This isn’t a neat story, and it leaves many questions. It doesn’t condemn Esau’s wives. It simply states what happened and mentions the pain Isaac and Rebekah felt.

Sometimes grief isn’t neat and tidy. There are seasons when families just carry the tension, and there doesn’t seem to be a pleasant conclusion. The Bible leaves the stories hanging, and that is still true for many today.

If you or your family look somewhat of a mess, the Bible understands – the Bible’s characters understand – and importantly, God understands.

How are your relationships today? If I mentioned a name, would you roll your eyes and become angry? Maybe you have good reasons to do so because of how they treated you or spoke badly about you. If they appeared again today and wanted to walk with you, would you want to? Would you like to remind them first of what they did? Would you want them to beg?

Isaac has moved on from Gerar. He has found water – again. This time, he has freedom. There is no more opposition from King Abimelek and his people, the Philistines. Life is good. Then something happens.

“Meanwhile, Abimelek had come to him from Gerar, with Ahuzzath his personal adviser and Phicol the commander of his forces. ²⁷ Isaac asked them, “Why have you come to me, since you were hostile to me and sent me away?” ²⁸ They answered, “We saw clearly that the Lord was with you; so we said, ‘There ought to be a sworn agreement between us’—between us and you. Let us make a treaty with you ²⁹ that you will do us no harm, just as we did not harm you but always treated you well and sent you away peacefully. And now you are blessed by the Lord.” ³⁰ Isaac then made a feast for them, and they ate and drank. ³¹ Early the next morning the men swore an oath to each other. Then Isaac sent them on their way, and they went away peacefully. ³² That day Isaac’s servants came and told him about the well they had dug. They said, “We’ve found water!” ³³ He called it Shibah,and to this day the name of the town has been Beersheba.” (Genesis 26 v 26-33)

The same people who had driven Isaac away.

The same people who had been jealous of Isaac’s blessings from God.

The same people who were responsible for filling in Abraham’s wells.

The same people are now wanting a treaty.

We would understand if Isaac had said ‘No!’ But he didn’t. He showed hospitality and entered into a treaty with people who had previously tried to harm him. It wasn’t a coincidence that on the very same day, he struck water again.

How we deal with people, even those who have hurt us, will determine the blessing of living water. The Holy Spirit is in the garden of our hearts, and we need to protect that place so that He can stay.

How you deal with your enemies is probably even more important than how you deal with your friends.

Instead, ‘they ate and drank’, a reminder of Jesus around the table with his friends, who he knew would all desert him at the hour of his need.

We all have a choice in situations like Isaac’s. We can build a wall or a table.

We can keep a record of wrongs, or we can tear up the record.

Wells can be filled in, and so can hearts.

Unforgiveness and disappointments, bitterness and hurts, division and pain, these are the rubbish of the earth that can stop any flow of the streams of living water.

You have to protect the garden of your heart.

There are times when we enter a season of dryness or don’t experience breakthroughs, not because we haven’t prayed enough, but because we have refused to speak to someone or to forgive them. Grace has stopped flowing, and so has the refreshing of the Holy Spirit’s presence.

If you want a Beersheba season in which the wells are opened in your life, perhaps it’s time to reach out to that person you don’t want to, let go of grudges, or forgive the person who opposed you.

There will always be more people saying ‘build a wall’. Very few say ‘build a table’.

God is calling you to do just that. Build a table. Not because of the person. But there is a well in your heart ready to flow again.

The God who met Isaac at Beersheba is the same God here right now. Whether your ‘enemy’ comes to the table or not, this will be the posture of your heart, and this will unlock the streams of living water.

Having seen a successful breakthrough at Rehoboth, you might think Isaac would be content to remain there, in the spacious place of flourishing. But he didn’t. He continued to move on. He was glad he did, for something happened in the next place he arrived at.

“From there he went up to Beersheba. ²⁴ That night the Lord appeared to him and said, “I am the God of your father Abraham. Do not be afraid, for I am with you; I will bless you and will increase the number of your descendants for the sake of my servant Abraham.” ²⁵ Isaac built an altar there and called on the name of the Lord. There he pitched his tent, and there his servants dug a well.” (Genesis 26 v 23-25)

That first night in Beersheba, God appeared to him. The beautiful thing that God does is to take the promise given to the previous generation and make it active in the present, in Isaac’s. Above all, after all the opposition and conflict, God says the timeless words we all need to be reminded of: “I am with you.”

Sometimes it’s not finding the well that is most important, but it is hearing the voice of God that reassures us of His presence.

Isaac builds an altar. It was the right thing to do.

God had appeared, maybe in a dream or a vision, but it left Isaac with a definite realisation that:-

• The Divine presence was here.
• Isaac was not God.

This is the beauty of the altars in the Bible. It represents worship and surrender.

Interestingly, he pitched his tent close to the altar. Shouldn’t we bring our whole lives to the altar? The Apostle Paul would say we should get on the altar, calling us to be living sacrifices (Romans 12).

We need to structure our lives so that the altar is central, not an add-on.

He instructed that another well be dug, and the provision flowed.

Beersheba was special not because of the water flowing from the well, not because he had pitched his tent, but because God had appeared to him and he had built an altar.

Beersheba is the place where you recognise that the promises of previous generations and those found in the Bible are true not only for 2026 but for you because God is with you as much as He is with anyone.

I have just arrived in Kenya, a place I know well and where I have had the privilege of seeing a few boreholes being drilled, bringing life-saving water to many communities. How fitting then that I read these next few verses.

There is a famine, and Isaac stays rather than go to Egypt to escape, as his father had during the previous famine. Instead, he moves around looking for water. He finds it.

“Isaac’s servants dug in the valley and discovered a well of fresh water there. ²⁰ But the herders of Gerar quarrelled with those of Isaac and said, “The water is ours!” So he named the well Esek,because they disputed with him. ²¹ Then they dug another well, but they quarrelled over that one also; so he named it Sitnah. ²² He moved on from there and dug another well, and no one quarrelled over it. He named it Rehoboth,saying, “Now the Lord has given us room and we will flourish in the land.” (Genesis 26 v 19-22)

After every dig and every breakthrough, Isaac faced opposition, except for the third one.

He continued until he found a place where there was room to flourish.

Some people won’t dig with you. They won’t be part of the breakthrough. But they will want to claim every benefit of it. Wisdom sometimes says, ‘move on. You’re not here to become embroiled in every complaint and land-grab. Walking on from some battles is the best path to take.

Rehoboth waits for you.

The first well was Esek, which means ‘dispute’, and the conflict was over control. Resist and move on from such arguments. God is in control, not man.

The second well was Sitnah. It simply means ‘opposition’ and how people can begin opposing you during a time of celebration, I don’t know, but they do.

Many years ago, when I was a Pastor of a church plant, after a few years of digging the soil through prayer and fasting, we had a breakthrough, and many young people came to faith in Jesus. The Holy Spirit was being poured out; it was a wonderful time. However, it was also the season of the most complaints from Christians who wanted to control what was happening. I learnt the importance of keeping going and not letting people shut down the move of God. Eventually, we grew and indeed flourished. We entered a Rehoboth season.

Is it time for you to dig again, to reopen wells, to search for the life-giving streams of Living Water?

Is that to reopen the prayer place, which has been filled in with many other things? Is it pursuing the promises of God again? The well is still there. It’s just been blocked up.

Abraham had gone down to Egypt when the famine had previously struck. But God told Isaac to sow in the place of famine. God wanted to do something new. He wanted to do something in that place of famine. There are miracles within the famine of our lives.

“Isaac planted crops in that land and the same year reaped a hundredfold, because the Lord blessed him. ¹³ The man became rich, and his wealth continued to grow until he became very wealthy. ¹⁴ He had so many flocks and herds and servants that the Philistines envied him. ¹⁵ So all the wells that his father’s servants had dug in the time of his father Abraham, the Philistines stopped up, filling them with earth. ¹⁶ Then Abimelek said to Isaac, “Move away from us; you have become too powerful for us.” ¹⁷ So Isaac moved away from there and encamped in the Valley of Gerar, where he settled. ¹⁸ Isaac reopened the wells that had been dug in the time of his father Abraham, which the Philistines had stopped up after Abraham died, and he gave them the same names his father had given them.” (Genesis 26 v 12-18)

The result of obedience was God’s greatness upon his life. He became a threat to the Philistines. God’s purpose for your life is for you to receive His greatness upon you. It doesn’t matter what the circumstances are. The conditions may not be ideal for you right now, but God doesn’t need perfect circumstances to bring blessings to your life. There are times to escape, as Abraham did when he faced famine. But there are seasons when God says – “stay and sow”.

Remember who you serve. The one who transforms a few loaves of bread and fish titbits to feed a multitude, who splits rocks open to quench the thirst of millions, and who in famines can produce a harvest that causes the world around you to be envious.

The blessing in your life can also bring opposition.

Maybe you have known this same kind of opposition. The enemy of our lives desires to block our spiritual vitality. If your days of anointing and intimacy with God are more in the past than the present, then it could be that the wells of your heart have been filled in with discouragement and doubt.

What would it look like to reopen those wells in your life? To clear away whatever has blocked your access to God’s presence.  Are there promises over your life once given that need a new season to breathe again?

This season may be difficult, but you can thrive in that difficulty.

The same lie told to the same person out of the same fear, treating the wife with the same disrespect, making her feel expendable. It is the next generation that is not learning from the mistakes of the previous generation.

“When the men of that place asked him about his wife, he said, “She is my sister,” because he was afraid to say, “She is my wife.” He thought, “The men of this place might kill me on account of Rebekah, because she is beautiful.” ⁸ When Isaac had been there a long time, Abimelek king of the Philistines looked down from a window and saw Isaac caressing his wife Rebekah. ⁹ So Abimelek summoned Isaac and said, “She is really your wife! Why did you say, ‘She is my sister’?” Isaac answered him, “Because I thought I might lose my life on account of her.” ¹⁰ Then Abimelek said, “What is this you have done to us? One of the men might well have slept with your wife, and you would have brought guilt upon us.” ¹¹ So Abimelek gave orders to all the people: “Anyone who harms this man or his wife shall surely be put to death.” (Genesis 26 v 7-11)

When will the next generation be better than the one before?

• When we stop allowing fear to dictate the moment, and we start to have faith for tomorrow.
• When we focus more on being different in the crises of life.
• When we stop relying on what we have inherited and realise we need a conviction experience that forged that inheritance, for ourselves.
• When we stop using people as collateral damage for our gains.

• When we start living better than those outside of the faith.
• When we stop creating false versions of ourselves.
• Perhaps the greatest response to the questions is this:-
• When we stop believing we are better and therefore exempt from the mistakes of the previous generation.

Do you want to run away today? It happens all over the world for the same reasons. Crises. You may belong to a family that did just that. When it got tough, they moved on. But what if being faithful to God means staying put? God’s covenant with us isn’t a formula we learn – do this, and that will happen; but rather it is a living relationship that asks us to listen and obey in each generation.

We have moved from one generation to the next in our reading, and we see that some things are similar and others are very different, just as today.

“Now there was a famine in the land—besides the previous famine in Abraham’s time—and Isaac went to Abimelek king of the Philistines in Gerar. ² The Lord appeared to Isaac and said, “Do not go down to Egypt; live in the land where I tell you to live. ³ Stay in this land for a while, and I will be with you and will bless you. For to you and your descendants I will give all these lands and will confirm the oath I swore to your father Abraham. ⁴ I will make your descendants as numerous as the stars in the sky and will give them all these lands, and through your offspringall nations on earth will be blessed, ⁵ because Abraham obeyed me and did everything I required of him, keeping my commands, my decrees and my instructions.” ⁶ So Isaac stayed in Gerar.” (Genesis 26 v 1-6

So Isaac stayed in Gerar. This was different from what his father had done. He chose to stay in a difficult situation rather than flee to Egypt. As Abraham was obedient in going down to Egypt, Isaac was obedient in not doing so.

However, it indicates far more to us today.

• Isaac’s obedience looked different to his father’s, but it was as necessary as Abraham’s was. Our life is not simply repeating what the previous generation did for our callings; indeed, challenges are unique, but faithfulness to the voice of God and remaining in His covenant with us is the same.
• Isaac chose to remain in the covenant given to his father, and we have to choose to remain in the covenant of Christ. That meant Isaac had to trust the covenant, remain faithful to it and let it shape his life and decisions; and so do we.
• There is no covenant without obedience. Isaac was blessed because of his father’s obedience, and a blessing will flow from his life to his descendants, so long as he too obeys. The covenant of Christ was born through His blood of obedience, and we are now blessed. If we too remain in that covenant, then the blessing will flow through us to the next generation. We, too, leave a legacy, having received one from the previous generation who passed it down to us.

“Now there was a famine in the land – besides the previous famine in Abraham’s time … The Lord appeared to Isaac and said, ‘Do not go down to Egypt; live in the land where I tell you to live. Stay in this land for a while, and I will be with you and will bless you….” (Genesis 26 v 1-3)

Abraham had gone down to Egypt when the famine had previously struck. But God told Isaac to sow in the place of famine. God wanted to do something new. He wanted to do something in that place of famine.

The wisest thing would be to do what his father had done.

The wisest thing would have been to choose common sense.

No. Not on this occasion.

The wisest thing is always to respond to the appearance of the Lord to you in whatever form that is.

Isaac was told to stay in the crisis.

The Lord spoke 5 things to Isaac:-

· Do not go down to Egypt. Don’t look at what the last generation did, and don’t look at what seems obvious in the present. Ask the question: Lord, what path are you closing that I keep trying to force open? What “Egypt” am I running toward that you’re protecting me from?

· Live in the land where I tell you to live. Living is the option. You will live. The Lord promises to show him where. Ask the question: Lord, where are you already speaking that I haven’t been listening? Show me not just where to live, but how to truly live—fully present and fully alive—right where you’ve placed me.

· Stay in this land for a while. Even though every part of you may want to leave, stay. It is time-limited—for a while. This indicates that the Lord hasn’t forgotten Isaac; this is a purposeful season. Ask the question: Lord, what are you doing here that requires me to stay? What am I being prepared for that can only happen in this place, in this season?

· I will be with you. Staying is not staying alone. It is staying in His presence, with the Lord. He doesn’t leave—He stays with you in the difficulty. Ask the question: Lord, how can I recognise your presence in this hard place?

· (I) will bless you. The blessing and provisions were not to be found in Egypt’s grain stores of plenty but in the proximity of God’s presence. God doesn’t need Egypt. God doesn’t need circumstances to be right. Ask the question: Lord, what blessing are you offering that I’ve been overlooking while searching for different circumstances?

A moment on the lips is a lifetime on the hips. A phrase that seems to have been around for a lifetime, warning us of high-calorie cakes and desserts, which lead to weight gain. What follows in these next verses seems most ordinary and happens every day when the urgent drowns out what is essential. In a moment, the tomorrow of Esau’s life seemed so far away to his need of today. In that flash of a moment, his life changed forever.

“Once when Jacob was cooking some stew, Esau came in from the open country, famished. ³⁰ He said to Jacob, “Quick, let me have some of that red stew! I’m famished!” (That is why he was also called Edom.)³¹ Jacob replied, “First sell me your birthright.” ³² “Look, I am about to die,” Esau said. “What good is the birthright to me?” ³³ But Jacob said, “Swear to me first.” So he swore an oath to him, selling his birthright to Jacob. ³⁴ Then Jacob gave Esau some bread and some lentil stew. He ate and drank, and then got up and left. So Esau despised his birthright.” (Genesis 25 v 29-34)

Think of the characters who acted as Esau did. If only they had made a different decision at that moment. Aaron created a golden calf for worship to please people; Koran, Dathan and Abiram slandered Moses and died; Samson found Delilah and lost his eyesight; Eli kept silent with his sinful sons and lost God’s presence; Uzziah became proud of his achievements and became leprous; Moses struck the rock twice and missed the Promised Land; there are so many. None of these people needed to end the way they did. If only they had considered before they acted.

If Esau had acted differently, “Jacob, I’m exhausted. Let me rest. Then we talk.” Perhaps his birthright would not have felt worthless compared to satisfying his appetite.

What are you about to trade in? What will you regret tomorrow?

Our health? Our integrity? Our children’s presence? The list goes on and on.

• If we name what we are so willing to let go of, then maybe we would reconsider.
• If we check those vulnerable moments and call for wisdom before we make rash decisions, then maybe we would reconsider.
• If we had a better self-awareness of our ‘appetites’, and when they kick in, we have a way to deal with them, then maybe we would reconsider.

It’s not a guarantee we won’t make mistakes, but considering before we act is good wisdom.

We are moving into one of the most dysfunctional of family stories. Isaac and Rebekah are married, and they have twins. Isaac favoured Esau, the older twin and skilled hunter; his father loved the BBQs Esau cooked, while Rebekah favoured Jacob, the younger son. Division has emerged in marriage.

“When the time came for her to give birth, there were twin boys in her womb. ²⁵ The first to come out was red, and his whole body was like a hairy garment; so they named him Esau.²⁶ After this, his brother came out, with his hand grasping Esau’s heel; so he was named Jacob.Isaac was sixty years old when Rebekah gave birth to them. ²⁷ The boys grew up, and Esau became a skilful hunter, a man of the open country, while Jacob was content to stay at home among the tents. ²⁸ Isaac, who had a taste for wild game, loved Esau, but Rebekah loved Jacob.” (Genesis 25 v 24-28)

Imagine the scene. Jacob comes out, grasping at his brother’s heel, as if trying to pull him back. He doesn’t want to be second. He obviously doesn’t know he is in the line of the covenant promised child, Christ. Neither do his parents. Their division and his grasping are pointless. For God has a plan.

Most divisions and competitive ambitions are pointless. God has a plan.

Esau, the one you can see and feel the hairs of, is the firstborn. Jacob, the heel-grabber, the one born second but wants to be first, the deceiver, will be the main character of the Bible story.

They grow and follow different pursuits. Then comes the major schism.

“Isaac, who had a taste for wild game, loved Esau, but Rebekah loved Jacob.”

We know that sentence could have been written so much better, fairer, and more loving.

Isaac loved what he was getting from his son (the wild game). Rebekah just loved.

What must it do to a child to know one of their parents doesn’t love them as much as the other sibling?

Do we love conditionally?

Do we love those who feed our ego and satisfy our appetites?

Do we spend our lives grasping at heels, jealous of what was given to others?

The story is beginning. We know the end.

Importantly, we know God has a plan that can navigate the divisions, deceptions, and selfish ambitions within families and friendship circles.