So who was she?
2 John
She is an elder, a leader, someone with responsibility, a woman!
She is chosen, she was meant to be there, God-appointed.
She has children, though this could be Johns way of talking of her church as he uses that word previously in such a way.
She has children who walk with God and some who don’t. She knows joy and the pain of that presumably. And so do we.
She is being mentored by John to continue in love, to persevere and not lose what she has. And so must we.
She is being taught to be on her guard against those who deceive. And so must we.
She has a sister, who is in a similar calling. She is not alone. And neither are we.

