We all have met one. The busybody. The meddler.
“What has this got to do with you” are the words of Christ to His closest friend when John tried to interfere with what will happen to Peter. We are all grateful for a friend who sticks by us and even for us. But we know there are times when some people just want to interfere. Paul says don’t and gives reasons for why.
“and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: you should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you, so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody.” (1 Thessalonians 4:11-12)
- You have your own life to lead. In a world where the goal is to be noticed and where loud is better, Paul says strive to live quietly, peacefully, with calm and hidden even. You can’t do that when you’re meddling.
- You should be too busy working. God wants us all to work and to get tired because of work that we need to take rest. Nothing comes easy. Success and the growth we seek doesn’t happen through laziness.
- Your way of life should be in such a way that you are respected. Those outside the church are watching you. When you’re not there how do they speak about you? How will they ever come to know Christ if they are not influenced by the way you contribute to their world?
- Your aim is to lack nothing and so having to rely on others. This does not mean independence. It does mean spiritual maturity and growth as a follower of Christ.

