Opposition isn’t optional for followers of Jesus—it’s inevitable. Ministry and discipleship both come with their share of resistance, because opposition is woven into the fabric of life itself. Even the great Apostle Paul faced it, so we shouldn’t expect immunity.
Paul writes candidly about Alexander the metalworker: “Alexander the metalworker did me a great deal of harm. The Lord will repay him for what he has done. You too should be on your guard against him, because he strongly opposed our message” (2 Timothy 4:14-15).
In reflecting on friends—those he commissioned, those who disappointed him, and those who may never have been true friends at all—Paul offers us a masterclass in handling opposition. His approach to Alexander reveals five crucial principles:
1. Name the Reality
Paul identifies Alexander by name. Sometimes we’re so wounded that merely hearing someone’s name triggers anxiety. But naming your opposition robs it of its power over you. When you can say the name without flinching, you’ve taken back control.
2. Acknowledge the Damage
Paul doesn’t sugarcoat the impact: Alexander “did me a great deal of harm.” Minimizing hurt only keeps you trapped in it. Honest assessment is essential—the harm happened then, but it doesn’t have to harm you now.
3. Trust God’s Justice
Rather than seeking revenge, Paul entrusts Alexander to divine justice: “The Lord will repay him.” This surrender requires ultimate forgiveness—releasing the person who hurt you into God’s hands.
4. Exercise Practical Wisdom
Forgiveness doesn’t equal foolishness. Paul warns others to “be on your guard against him.” You can forgive someone completely while still protecting others from potential harm. This isn’t character assassination—it’s wisdom.
5. Keep the Bigger Picture
Paul recognizes that Alexander opposed “our message,” not just Paul personally. The apostle’s primary concern remained the gospel. Opposition should prompt us to ask: How can I respond in a way that serves the greater purpose, not just my personal interests?
When your own “Alexander the metalworker” appears, may you respond with Paul’s blend of honesty, faith, and practical wisdom.
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