Prosperity can divide what hardship never could. What once seemed like limitless space becomes crowded when blessings multiply.
Abraham’s journey illustrates this paradox. Returning from Egypt to Bethel, to the altar where he’d first worshipped God, he found that success had created an unexpected problem. Both he and his nephew Lot now possessed such vast flocks and herds that the land couldn’t sustain them together. Their herdsmen began to quarrel.
“So Abram said to Lot, ‘Let’s not have any quarrelling between you and me, or between your herders and mine, for we are close relatives. Is not the whole land before you? Let’s part company. If you go to the left, I’ll go to the right; if you go to the right, I’ll go to the left.'” (Genesis 13:8-9)
Abraham’s response reveals a heart restored to God. He doesn’t investigate who’s at fault or rally supporters to his side. Instead, he prioritises the relationship over his rights. Though custom and seniority entitled him to the first choice, he surrenders that advantage to Lot.
This moment shows us something profound: when we return to our “Bethel”—that place of worship where we surrender our lives to God—generosity flows naturally. We can let go of what we deserve and offer others a better position.
Our world obsesses over rights. We’re conditioned to fight for what’s ours, to ensure we get our fair share. But what if there’s another way?
When we approach conflicts with open hands rather than clenched fists, when we value relationships over entitlements, we participate in something greater than mere fairness. We reflect the character of a God who gave up everything for us.
How many of our conflicts might dissolve if we stopped demanding what’s rightfully ours? What could generosity unlock in our families, friendships, and communities?
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