Christ opens doors

Maybe we should be less concerned about open heavens and more concerned about open doors. Open doors are for people on the move, crossing borders, moving out and into enemy territory.

Open doors come through prayer.

Paul writing from a Roman Jail doesn’t pray to be released from prison but instead asks his Colossian friends to, “Pray for us, too, that God may open a door for our message, so that we may proclaim the mystery of Christ, for which I am in chains. Pray that I may proclaim it clearly, as I should. Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone. (Colossians 4:3-6)

Open doors can be found behind closed doors.

When Paul wrote to the Philippians, he makes it clear that the gospel had spread because others were praying for open doors: “Now I want you to know, brothers, that what has happened to me has actually resulted in the advancement of the gospel, so that it has become known throughout the whole imperial guard, and to everyone else, that my imprisonment is for Christ. Most of the brothers in the Lord have gained confidence from my imprisonment and dare even more to speak the message fearlessly” (Philippians 1.12-14). What appeared on the surface to be a “closed door” for Paul (his imprisonment) had actually turned into an “open door” for him to preach Christ among the authorities and guards who held him. It also gave confidence for his brothers to preach Christ fearlessly on the outside.

Throughout your life you will continue to have seasons of limitations but instead of seeing it as an enemy you could view it as an opportunity for the gospel and to declare a fresh revelation of God.

We need open doors. But often we miss them.

The Parable of the Good Samaritan shows us that our neighbour who we are called to love is anyone who is there. The Samaritan cared for the Jew simply because the Jewish man was there. He wasn’t going looking for a Jew to care for. It was an open door. So the question we are left with is this, ‘Who should we reach?’ And the answer is this: ‘Who is there?’

The Apostle says, “We need to speak clearly the mystery (truth once hidden)”. Paul is saying we need to speak their language and start from where they are at.

For example, remember Jesus and the Samaritan woman at the well? He centred the conversation on the woman’s challenges and needs. He didn’t dominate the conversation with his ABC gospel message, He guided the conversation. 

We need to do this and match our words with wisdom, why offend by our actions if it will prevent those we are reaching from listening.

Do we know what will offend?

If you are involved in children evangelism within an Indian culture and wonder why when the children had been so excited to come to your kids club that the day after they actually don’t then it shows you haven’t used wisdom. Your invitation will offend the Indian culture where it is the father who needs to give the blessing for the activities of his children. The invitation should have been given to him.

That may be obvious and within your culture there are sub-cultures that are maybe a little more hard to discover, but you must find them. We need to know who we are reaching.

Let’s pray for open doors today no matter where we are.

Christ is waiting to be asked

A survey taken during 24-27th April 2020 and published by TearFund revealed that 1 in 20 adults had started to pray during lockdown that had not prayed before. Just over 26% said they prayed at least once a month. But why?

45% said it was because they believed in God.

33% said they prayed because they believed it would work.

26% said they prayed during crisis.

24% prayed because they felt lonely.

It would appear that in the UK this pandemic has caused people to look beyond themselves for help. May that continue for Jesus is waiting!

In this final section of Paul’s letter to the Colossians which started with him saying he was praying for them and thanking God for them he now goes on to ask for prayer for himself.

The Apostle starts, “Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful. (Colossians 4 v 2)

Just a brief reminder:

Paul is telling the Colossians to ignore the infiltrators who are saying Christ in their life isn’t enough and they need other things also. They have died to performance, been hidden and now raised in Christ and are with Him above and beyond the circumstances of their life.

Bluntly now: In that place talk to Him.

One of the top ten hymns of all time is the following:-

What a friend we have in Jesus/ All our sins and griefs to bear
And what a privilege to carry/ Everything to God in prayer

Oh, what peace we often forfeit/ Oh, what needless pain we bear
All because we do not carry/ Everything to God in prayer

Have we trials and temptations?/ Is there trouble anywhere?
We should never be discouraged/ Take it to the Lord in prayer

Can we find a friend so faithful/ Who will all our sorrows share?
Jesus knows our every weakness/ Take it to the Lord in prayer

Joseph Scriven wrote the lyrics of this hymn, but it was actually published anonymously in the 1850s/1860s, mistakenly attributed to someone else. It wasn’t actually until 1886 that Joseph got recognition for his work, the year in which he passed away.

When asked if he was the author Joseph replied, ‘the Lord and I did it between us!’  Joseph went on to tell how he had forgotten about the hymn for many years, having so many troubles and trials on his mind.  It was found by a friend who was visiting Joseph during one of his severe bouts of depressive illness.  When asked about it Joseph beset by severe depression brought upon by tragedy after tragedy, with watery eyes said ‘that’s a very personal poem of testimony that God helped me to write to comfort my mother during a time of great sorrow in our lives.  I never intended it to be used by anyone else.’

He was born in Northern Ireland in 1819. He suffered much heartache during his life.  His fiancée drowned on the eve of their wedding and then his second fiancée died prematurely after becoming ill. Joseph never quite recovered from this second tragedy, and suffered periods of depression for the rest of his life. 

And yet through all this, he knew what it was to have a friend in Jesus. 

Having migrated to Canada he joined the Plymouth Brethren and began to help in the ministry especially amongst the elderly, the physically handicapped and brought comfort to the poor and those with mental health problems. His own suffering made him more aware of the suffering of others.

This broken man in many ways put others first as he walked with Christ his friend.

Your life may be a broken one and there may be far more questions than answers. You may not be swinging from the chandeliers of life and it can be simply a struggle. But friendship is a sharing of experiences, a personal and deep bonding of genuine care. There is a friend, His name is Jesus, talk to Him about everything.

Joseph Scriven died by drowning and no one knows whether it was an accident or suicide. But this broken man of prayer left a legacy that people are still singing about in 2020.

Back to the Apostle:

Be devoted in prayer. He doesn’t encourage them to pray. They obviously did that. He tells them to be devoted to it. Continually, throughout the day, all the time, about everything, talk to Jesus.

Be watchful. In ancient cities, built into the walls were huge watchtowers and watchman were posted day and night. But God spoke about how He had called His people to pray, see how they must do that with perseverance: “I have posted watchman on your walls , O Jerusalem; they will never be silent day or night. You who call on the LORD, give yourselves no rest, and give him no rest till he establishes Jerusalem and makes her a praise in the earth.” (Isaiah 62:6-7)

Be thankful – which is the language of faith. How can you talk to Jesus without being thankful for all He has done and who He is?!

Let’s pray. Christ is waiting to be asked.

Christ’s justice of His kingdom, part 2

For those who are responsible for others take heed …

“It is the Lord Christ you are serving. Anyone who does wrong will be repaid for their wrongs, and there is no favouritism.” (Colossians 3 v 25)

When we are served then we are to be right and fair with those who serve us

This is how the Amplified Bible explains it; “For he who deals wrongfully will [reap the fruit of his folly and] be punished for his wrongdoing. And [with God] there is no partiality [no matter what a person’s position may be, whether he is the slave or the master]” (vs. 25 AMP).

Slaves have rights according to Paul. In his letters, masters are given 3 principles to live by:

  • Do the same as slaves. That is if you hope to receive respect then show it; if you hope to receive service then give it.
  • Don’t threaten. They are not to misuse their position of authority.
  • Realise that Jesus is the Master. He is over them as much as they are over the slaves.

Leaders of the Church must walk in the justice of the Kingdom of Christ. How do people serve us? And how do we lead them? We must lead them as a Christ the Shepherd does.

In the years to come when sheep remember the shepherds that have been responsible for their life. They will perhaps have forgotten the many words spoken and the way they were led into new things. But they will never forget they were shepherded, they were cared for, they were loved.

Sheep never forget the cross. That is the justice of the Kingdom which Shepherds choose and which is Christ’s.

Everyone reaps what they sow …

There is no guarantee on earth of fairness of treatment from those whom we work for. Sometimes partiality means that bad workers are unfairly rewarded and good employees are penalised or left unrewarded. Paul assures us that there is a final rewarding and punishment, and with this there is no partiality.

For most of the Jews of Paul’s day they believed that God actually hated the Gentiles and loved the Jews. Think about the following beliefs:
There were 3 things to be thankful for as a Jewish man, you were not a slave, a woman or a GENTILE.
Never help a GENTILE, not at all, no matter how small or how much of an emergency it was. The answer was NO.
Funerals were held for Jews who married GENTILES. They were dead people.

Yes, it ran deep!
Church leaders, like Peter, once believed all of that.

Peter was part of the discipleship team of Jesus and still he was prejudiced. How was that possible?! He had seen the love of Jesus to every person no matter Jew or Gentile. How could he hold such hate in his heart? But he did and it needed changing for God has no favourites. He loves equally.
Maybe the answer can be had by asking the same question of those today who are in a discipleship team, who love and follow Jesus, but who look down on other people and condemn them because they are different to them. For example, U.S. Pastor Steven Anderson who after a nightclub shooting in Orlando, Florida on June 12th 2016, where 49 gay people were killed actually unbelievably said on national tv, “The good news is that there are now 50 less paedophiles in this world.”
Yes it still exists this hatred towards others.
You might disagree with a person’s belief or behaviour but you are stupid to disagree with God’s love!
With the measure you use it will be measured against you. That’s the justice of the Kingdom of Christ

Christ’s justice of His kingdom, part 1

In an ever changing world at risk from the pandemic and persecution there is one constant: Jesus Christ. He is not first among equals He is supreme above and beyond all. He is not one of the ways to the Father He is the only way.

“It is the Lord Christ you are serving. Anyone who does wrong will be repaid for their wrongs, and there is no favouritism.” (Colossians 3 v 25)

The Apostle Paul has just finished a household list of responsibilities as he did in his Ephesian letters and just before the verse we will focus on in v24 he reminds us all that we serve the Lord Jesus Christ in all that we do. Whether you are a slave or a master; whether you are in the pulpit or in the pew; title or no title; there is no favouritism. Everyone is the same and treated in the same way.

If you do wrong in the home where no one can see, you will be repaid for that wrong because the Lord Jesus Christ is in the home.

If you do wrong in work you may think it is okay because it is not in the Church but you will be repaid, for it is the Lord Jesus Christ you are working for.

Whether you are an apostle or a deacon, a bishop or a member, regardless of your position, power or privilege we are answerable to the Lord Jesus Christ.

This is how the Amplified Bible explains it; “For he who deals wrongfully will [reap the fruit of his folly and] be punished for his wrongdoing. And [with God] there is no partiality [no matter what a person’s position may be, whether he is the slave or the master]” (vs. 25 AMP).

When we serve then we are to do so with responsibility

Surely Paul will call for the emancipation of slaves? It doesn’t even appear the thought had crossed his mind.

I think perhaps Paul is not trying to devise a new way of life but how the Spirit would help us in the one we are in.

Slavery seems to have been universal at this time. There are estimates of up to 60 million slaves in the Roman Empire. Many were well-treated and many were abused. They included not only domestic slaves and manual labourers but educated people as well. Nobody challenged this constitution.

Paul is not looking to a new world but with the filling of the Spirit then our lives are changed and charged with purpose so that whatever we are doing we are really serving Christ. Behind their master is Christ, maybe hard to imagine, but the Spirit can help you find the face of Christ even in the worst of places.

That’s the justice of the Kingdom of Christ.

Christ for Wives, Children and Slaves.

The context is always important. The previous blogs through these chapters set the scene.

The Apostle is telling the Christians in Colossae that Christ is enough. They are to come away from the teaching that you need something else as well as Christ to be acceptable to God. That is not where they are. They have died to those kind of things and have been raised to a new life with Christ. Don’t focus on rules and regulations but on Christ. Let Christ be seen more than your rules of life.

If you view the Bible as a rulebook then you will hate this blog. But if you see the Bible as a place where you encounter God not as a download of information and stuff to do but instead, a place where you are not only encouraged because you learn new things of Him but a place where you weep and struggle and even argue with Him, then that’s where I am at.

We are in a similar place to when Paul wrote to the Ephesians a household code of practice, common at the time of him writing. It reads quite similar.

“Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them. Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. Fathers,do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged. Slaves, obey your earthly masters in everything; and do it, not only when their eye is on you and to curry their favour, but with sincerity of heart and reverence for the Lord. Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward.” (Colossians 3: 18-24)

Let me join the angry cry!

Should abused women stay with their husbands?

Should children obey their parents who teach them how to steal?

Should slaves even be slaves?

Why doesn’t Paul speak more about what we want him to say? Look at all we know in 2020 surely we need the Apostle to be more denouncing in his words. How helpful that would be.

But of course it isn’t 2020 when he is writing this Spirit-inspired piece of Scripture. He chooses the citizens of lowly status to speak into. Women who are ranked below men; children who have no rights and slaves who are purchased objects. What is he doing?

He is pushing the social boundaries of his day with the aim being the gospel mission, people to find Christ. For example he has already said in v11 there is no slave or free, that itself would have sent many scurrying to the verses of the Old Testament that slaves did not have the same rights as their free Israelites.

In the verses we read today, 5 times the Lord’s name is mentioned. Look at them. Paul is bringing the challenges of his society into the shadow of Christ. How much more should we? Whether that be about slavery or racism or diversity, what does being in Christ and with Christ and following Christ teach us about those terrible things? What would Christ do? How much more should we be pushing boundaries within and outside the Church?

Maybe that’s the point the Apostle is making. Don’t see these verses as a Christian manual for 2,000 years later. I don’t think Paul was writing with that in mind. But see how in the history of faith the Bible speaks into that day.

The Bible speaks today into the difficulty of our day. Let us use it not as a proof-text or to back up the inquiries of our opinions.

Thankfully the Spirit has developed our society and culture since the day of Paul and the Roman Empire. It is our responsibility now to do what the Apostle did to take Christ into the challenges of our generation and to do this with wisdom for the gospel mission.

Christ – let people see Him

Who will people see today?

“Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. 16 Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts. 17 And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.” (Colossians 3 v 15-17)

It is Christ’s peace.

Strict rules and regulations being inflicted on the Church at Colossae did not bring peace. All the customs and traditions, the denials and the strivings to find the ultimate fell short every time. Christ is peace. Nothing else. No one else. Don’t look to the world. You can gain the whole world and you won’t have peace if you don’t have Christ. Your friends may want the very best for you. They want you married, they want you to have children, they want you to have a great job, a house, a car, they want you to be happy, to travel, to experience, to be well. They are good friends. But they don’t understand that the best wish they could ever have for you is that you have Christ. To have Christ is to have peace.

It is Christ’s message

The infiltrators into the Church at Colossae had their message. It was Christ plus. They would have been able to point to the Scriptures (the Old Testament obviously not the New) to back up their message. The message of religion can be very real and can cause a person to commit the most terrible of crimes (as seen in France this last couple of weeks with the Islamic terrorists). If religion’s message can do that then it can at least certainly burden the one who is hearing it. However, there was another message:

The Message of Christ was passed through the communities of the 1st century Church through the re-telling of the stories and teachings of Jesus and also the Apostle’s letters to the Churches.

And what is the Message of Christ? It is definitely this: “Look what I have done for you. Look who I have made you. Let no one dilute this message.”

It is Christ’s name.

To speak or do whatever in the name of the Lord Jesus is to take something of the very nature of Christ which shows who He is and what He can do. The knife-wielding terrorists in France shouted, “allahu akbar” meaning God is greatest and then did the most evil of acts. That is Satan’s copy of what the Apostle is saying in this verse:-

Whatever it is we do or say we do it with the full consciousness that the presence of Christ is here.

Of course in these verses there is so much more regarding the songs from the Spirit and being thankful to God the Father.

It is a beautiful snap-shot of the triune God.

But I am purposely focusing on Christ through these blogs of Colossians.

May you carry His peace and message and whatever happens may people see the name of Christ in your life.

Christ needs to flow through my life … not the rules.

The Apostle has been clearly saying to the Colossian Church that they should not allow people to think that though they have Christ they need other things too to be accepted by God. For example, extra baptisms, fastings, circumcision, having extraordinary visions and the desires for experiences of angels.

Paul is therefore hardly likely to create his own set of rules. I don’t think he is doing that when he writes, “Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” (Colossians 3 v 12-14)

They look like rules and there are more to come. But I can’t do these, I fail continually. Plus the fact I’m not sure I feel comfortable someone trying to be kind to me because that’s one of the rules and they are trying their best to meet it. “Paul I am going to forgive you because that’s what a Christian has to do. I mean if I wasn’t a Christian you would never get my forgiveness!” I don’t want to see it that way anymore.

So?

Let’s read a beautiful few words from the Message of v12, “dress in the wardrobe God picked out for you.” I love this. These virtues are not the best version of me I can be. They are clothes that God has put out for me.

So?

  1. I am chosen by God.
  2. My relationship with Christ is all I need.
  3. I have died with Him, raised with Him and am above anything that happens in my life.
  4. I clothe myself with Christ. It is His compassion, kindness, humility etc. Not mine. Nor some virtue that I have to develop. It is Christ. It is who He is. I represent Christ in every situation. I need to speak with Him, think on Him, study Him, take Him into my day and my one request is that people see and hear Christ in me. Even when life is so difficult and I get hurt I need to let the life of Christ flow through me and I find forgiveness is here.
  5. To put on love is not so that love is the subject. Christ is always central to it all. To put on love I put on Christ. I don’t need to worry which virtue is needed in a certain situation. I just need to reveal Christ. When Christ is revealed love is seen for Christ is love. Love does the work of the virtues.
  6. So today and every day, my prayer is this:

God in my living, There in my breathing/ God in my waking, God in my sleeping.

God in my resting, there in my working/ God in my thinking, God in my speaking.

Be my everything, be my everything/ Be my everything, be my everything.

God in my hoping, there in my dreaming/ God in my watching, God in my waiting.

God in my laughing, there in my weeping/ God in my hurting, God in my healing.

Christ in me, Christ in me/ Christ in me, the hope of glory.

You are everything.

Christ in me, Christ in me/ Christ in me, the hope of glory.

Be my everything.

Christ’s list of rules …. Really?

I think the Bible shows me how I will never be perfect, that I need saving continually.

I think the Bible shows me that imperfect people can still connect with God.

I think the Bible shows me that how I treat other people is hugely important to Him.

I think the Bible is true in so much as it doesn’t cover over the failures of its heroes.

I think the Bible is a mystery which I don’t understand but it lures me into studying it which takes me away from my own circumstances.

I think the Bible is loving despite its characters at times believing God is anything but love.

I think the central figure in the Bible is God who reveals Himself in the image of Christ.

Why do I say all that?

I have obviously known that as Colossians was written as a prison letter along with Ephesians that we would once again come round to his list of rules.

I wrote about these rules in the Ephesians blogs.

This morning I have been thinking and praying in a different way than I did before.

It makes sense that Paul having told us we had died, were hidden and raised with Christ that he then goes further in effect to say ‘stay dead’. He says, “(1) Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Because of these, the wrath of God is coming. (2) You used to walk in these ways, in the life you once lived. But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. (3) Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator.  (4) Here there is no Gentile or Jew, circumcised or uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave or free, but Christ is all, and is in all.” (Colossians 3 v 5-11)

The Message says of v11, “Words like Jewish and non-Jewish, religious and irreligious, insider and outsider, uncivilized and uncouth, slave and free, mean nothing. From now on everyone is defined by Christ, everyone is included in Christ.”

The Message helps.

Everyone is defined by Christ, everyone is included in Christ. Isn’t that amazing?! Isn’t that the most important thing to centre our thoughts on?!

So?

Paul’s lists, how can they be understood 2,000 years ago? What meaning do they now hold for us? Who can definitely say ‘oh this is exactly what he meant when he said don’t be greedy’?

Maybe this helps, note the numbers in the text above and underlined:

  1. As you have died with Christ, hidden and raised with Him, you are not where you think you are at times. You are above your circumstances. Stay there.
  2. There is a way of life you used to live, don’t be tempted to go back there.
  3. Don’t pretend to be someone you are not anymore.
  4. Everything now is about Christ, let your life remain so.

You might disagree because you may have been brought up on rules and been taught a God of rules and maybe you are right. But I am finding that my life with Christ calls me not to focus on other people’s interpretation of rules for living but to simply come away from the life I lived. My life with Christ calls me not to focus on being what others want me to be, holy, blameless and a good man but to be who He has made and continues to make me.

I have found my life with Christ is about Him and not me. I feel free in that.

Christ and you are not where you think you are.

Someone today is waking to a set of circumstances that are trying to define you.

When we feel blessed by God then we feel close to Him and we generally are in a good state of heart and mind. Our emotions are healthy and our thoughts are positive. If you don’t believe me then just wait till the next time God answers your prayer!

What happens when we don’t feel blessed by God?

What happens when others weigh us down with their expectations and instructions?

If you have been reading through these last 2 chapters then you will know why the Apostle says the following, “Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God. When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory.” (Colossians 3 v 1-4)

Christ is above everything.

He is not just above the creation and universe. Water has been found on the moon. Who put it there? He is above the moon and stars. But He is also above what I face today when I don’t think I can breathe anymore, He is my breath.

Christ is at the right hand of God.

He is not a secondary agent of God. A messenger or a prophet. He is God and the image of God that we see and know. There is no other name higher than His name. He has all authority.

Christ is seated.

He isn’t working to create a plan that will save the world. He has finished that work.

So how does this impact you?

This is not the worst day

When your circumstance says this is the most awful thing to happen to me, it isn’t. Terrible that it might be but actually your spiritual death was the worst. You left that behind when you came to Christ.

This circumstance does not have the final word over my life.

People may look at you and characterise you, pigeon-hole you, judge you and malign you even. But this life and the set of circumstances that you are going through are not where your life truly abides. You are hidden in Christ.

The final impact is a shared one.

Christ and you will appear together. This life isn’t it! There is more. A future life where the real you will be and will be made known.

So if today isn’t a great one then don’t look down, look up, as that’s where you actually are.

Christ doesn’t want you to pretend anymore.

Keeping up Appearances was a comedy series that ran in the UK in the early 90’s. Hyacinth Bucket (or Bouquet as she insisted on) and her long-suffering husband Richard were the central characters. Every story was about Hyacinth trying to appear to be a snob and failing all the time. I loved it and still enjoy any repeats that get shown.

The truth is appearances can be deceiving.

It is possible to look at someone and think they have no problems whatsoever. You can be a friend of someone for many years and not know that behind the scenes they are breaking apart.

I know a man who has spent his whole life trying to fit the mould of other people’s expectations. The pressure-cooker is too much for him.

One of the problems we face is a desire to fit into other people’s norms. Whether that be marriage, having children, having a house, having a good job, being the right shape etc. There are many who strive to tick these boxes. If it’s not to fit in it is so people don’t pity them anymore which is still a form of conforming to other’s standards.

Then if we throw in some religious rules and regulations it all just becomes too much.

The Apostle is tackling the Colossian challenge of forgetting that Christ is enough.

The Message says, “Such things sound impressive if said in a deep enough voice. They even give the illusion of being pious and humble and ascetic. But they’re just another way of showing off, making yourselves look important.” (Colossians 2 v 23)

Who do you want to be? Someone else or what others want you to be or the very best version of who Christ loves?

If you fall into keeping up appearances then:

  1. You will lack joy. There will be nothing left but an ache in your heart because you are not ‘home’.
  2. You will be afraid of failure. You will tip-toe around your relationships lest they are upset with you.
  3. You will work hard to be someone you already are.
  4. You will always come up short. When criticised you will agree and work harder and be better but you know you will never be good enough.
  5. You know God loves you but are unsure whether He likes you. Similarly you know people like you but you are unsure whether they love you.

If you serve the legalist:

  1. They never look in the mirror. There is no self-awareness. They never apologise.
  2. They look at others through a magnifying glass. They pick on the small things of your life for improvement and it makes them feel better than they really are.

The key is this: what has an appearance doesn’t mean it has any value.

Look to Christ and Him alone.