Author: missionspaul

Packed into a few sentences Paul manages to give 7 treasured finds of what he believes God wants for our lives.

How should I live? It is in these 7 points.

They are straight to the point, no in-depth explanation and certainly no negotiation.

Here is the second one: God wants you to talk to Him all the time, without ceasing, persistently, to “pray continually” (1 Thessalonians 5 v 17).

My granddaughter is starting to talk, I don’t know exactly what she is saying sometimes, but she seems to be talking continually. She talks about all kinds of things and I wonder what she is thinking about it. But now that she has found her voice it seems she intends to use it. The highlight is when she is talking to me for then my heart is full.

Pray. Continually. Constantly. However this doesn’t necessarily mean you use your voice. But it is to remain in connection with God throughout the day and even in the night when you wake. You don’t need to use your voice and you don’t need to be kneeling down. You don’t need to be in the church building and you don’t need to wait for the church service.

Never stop praying. If you have, start it up again. Make a determined effort to pray every day and throughout the day. Stay up late and pray. Get up early and pray. Spend the night in prayer. Fast things so you can pray more.

For when you are praying you are hoping. You are waiting. You are expecting God to answer. When you are praying you are focused on Him. Prayer keeps your eyes lifted upwards even when your heart maybe heavy. When we pray we are acknowledging that we are not alone in this life but there is another presence, the Living God.

Packed into a few sentences Paul manages to give 7 treasured finds of what he believes God wants for our lives.

How should I live? It is in these 7 points.

What does God want me to do in life? It is in these 7 points.

7 hallmarks of a disciple; 7 acts of obedience; 7 proofs of genuineness.

They are straight to the point, no in-depth explanation and certainly no negotiation.

Here is the first one: God doesn’t want gloomy, negative, non-smiling Christians!

“Rejoice always, ¹⁷ pray continually, ¹⁸ give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. ¹⁹ Do not quench the Spirit. ²⁰ Do not treat prophecies with contempt ²¹ but test them all; hold on to what is good, ²² reject every kind of evil.” (1 Thessalonians 5 v 16-22)

I couldn’t understand why after all the brutalisation from men she was so joyful. “God was with me throughout my suffering” was her answer. I then understood again that joy for the Christian isn’t about being happy with circumstances and things which change like the wind. But it is about being happy in the fact that God is present.

This is an act. To rejoice. I choose to do this. I don’t have to. But I do it because He is with me and He is with me in this situation and condition I find myself in.

Because He went through dark days yes I will walk through valleys.
BUT
Because He rose …I also … will rise! How do I know this? Because the Christian knows ‘God was with me’

So ask a friend what they see and no matter what is going in your life if they don’t see joy then begin to acknowledge that God is with you and start to rejoice about that fact.

In the good times and the bad times I will be joyful.

“Hold them in the highest regard in love because of their work. Live in peace with each other. ¹⁴ And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone. ¹⁵ Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always strive to do what is good for each other and for everyone else.” (1 Thessalonians 5 v 13-15)

So here are the 10 things that make for a great church and what every Pastor wants of their members!

1. They hold their Pastor in the highest regard because of their work.
2. They get along with their Pastor.
3. They warn those who are the ‘freeloaders’.
4. They warn those who are trying to cause division.
5. They encourage the disheartened.
6. They help the weak.
7. They are patient with everyone.
8. They make sure no one tries to get even.

So here are the final 2 things that make for a great church and what every Pastor wants of their members!

• They strive to do good for each other.

Goodness is a life where you look like God, especially in front of your enemies. They may be ungrateful and they may not recognise what you do but He sees. God can see you identify with Him for this is who He is and what He has done and does today. This is the Church. Called by God for people, others before me, people ahead of me, serving, reaching, others all the time, every time. The Church never entertains the thought, ‘Well what about me? What about what I want? How do I feel?’ for these are destructive thoughts.

Some churches are marked by destruction and others by goodness. The fall-outs, the bickering, the gossip, the self-centred victim mentality all destroy. The members every Pastor wants are the ones who are striving for the good not the bad.

1. They strive to do good to those outside the Church.

A church that is united is a church where community is important, where people matter. But it is not just the community of those who attend church. But those who are yet to do so. We live in a world that is closer together than it has ever been and yet driven apart at the core. The incarnational God left His safety, His glory and got caught up with our mess and failings and history. He did it because He cared. Doing good to those outside the Church means we will leave our comfort zones, our glory and get burdened and involved with the problems of the world. Their problem becomes our problem.

The goodness of the gospel tells of the sacrifice of the Father to send the one He loves to people who are rejecting Him.  It is also the sacrifice of the son to be sent. The Father sends and the son dies. The church wants to live, God wants the church to die for the world. That’s the gospel.

Richard Wurmbrand was 14 years in a communist Romanian prison, he said, “A man really believes not what he recites in a creed, but only the things he is ready to die for.” Come to Jesus and he will fix all your problems is not the gospel. The love from a sacrificial life is a cause, a purpose which needs devotion, focused and disciplined Christians.

In the story of the prodigal Son the father ran to his returning son to get there before the judging community. A Church that believes in the goodness of the gospel runs and embraces the offensive sinful people before the religious condemn them.

You would think that is the prerequisite for a Church. We can all love people who we like or who are similar to us. But doing good to the unlovable is another thing completely!

1. They hold their Pastor in the highest regard because of their work.
2. They get along with their Pastor.
3. They warn those who are the ‘freeloaders’.
4. They warn those who are trying to cause division.
5. They encourage the disheartened.
6. They help the weak.
7. They are patient with everyone.
8. They make sure no one tries to get even.
9. They strive to do good for each other.
10. They strive to do good to those outside the Church.

“Hold them in the highest regard in love because of their work. Live in peace with each other. ¹⁴ And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone. ¹⁵ Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always strive to do what is good for each other and for everyone else.” (1 Thessalonians 5 v 13-15) The Message says, “Overwhelm them with appreciation and love! Get along among yourselves, each of you doing your part. Our counsel is that you warn the freeloaders to get a move on. Gently encourage the stragglers, and reach out for the exhausted, pulling them to their feet. Be patient with each person, attentive to individual needs. And be careful that when you get on each other’s nerves you don’t snap at each other. Look for the best in each other, and always do your best to bring it out.”

So here are 3 more things that make for a great church and what every Pastor wants of their members!

1. They help the weak.

They called Australian retired salesman Don Ritchie “the watchman.” Each day, he sat in his favourite chair at his cliffside home, he would look up and scan the precipice that took the lives of approximately 50 suicide jumpers each year, trying to discern the intentions of visitors.

When somebody seemed to be lingering too long at the cliff, he walked out to talk to him.

“You can’t just sit there and watch them, you gotta try and save them. It’s pretty simple.”

According to official estimates, Ritchie and his wife Moya saved 160 lives during the 45 years they lived near the Gap Park, a famous cliff frequented by sightseers that affords a beautiful view of the Sydney Harbour. However, the unofficial tally is closer to 400, according to newspaper reports.

Although he occasionally used force over the years, his usual approach was friendliness and persuasion, which often ended in an invitation to join himself and his wife at their home for a cup of tea. A former salesman, he saw himself in a different line of sales at the Gap.

“I used to sell kitchen scales and bacon cutters, then I was state manager of a life insurance company,” he told a reporter. “At the Gap I’m trying to sell people life.” Ritchie didn’t pry or preach, but rather smiled and listened, a technique that often worked, though not always. He lost many to the cliff, but saved more than he lost, and didn’t suffer feelings of guilt for his failures. “You can’t do much about it,” he said.

Although it was difficult for him to remember all of the faces he had seen at the cliff during his decades of residency there, he often recalled a woman who had taken off her shoes and had scaled the small fence bordering the ledge, where she sat with a look of confusion on her face. After talking to her and inviting her in for tea, the woman explained that she suffered from depression, and that the medication she had been given was not working. Ritchie and his wife suggested that she ask for a second opinion. Months later, she sent them a bottle of French champagne, and then a Christmas card thanking them for their help.

For his decades of effort to prevent suicides, Ritchie was awarded the Order of Australia, which is the country’s second highest honour, in 2006, and he and his wife were named citizens of the year by the local city council.

Dianne Gaddin, an anti-suicide activist whose daughter killed herself at the cliff in 2005, thought Ritchie may have talked her daughter out of previous attempts and told a reporter, “It takes an enormous amount of courage just to go up to a person who is going to jump. Don has a charisma about him. He makes people feel safe, secure, and calm. I really think he is one special man.” Don carried on being ‘The Watchman’ until his death in May 2012.

The weak are all around us and the Church needs its members to help them.

• They are patient with everyone.

A woman rushed up to famed violinist Fritz Kreisler (1875-1962) after a concert and cried: “I’d give my life to play as beautifully as you do.” Kreisler replied, “I did.”

If you plant a Chinese bamboo seed, it will sit in the ground for five years and appear to not be making any changes. Then, over a six-week period, it will grow 90 feet.

There is a giant Himalayan lily which spends most of its life looking like nothing at all but then after 5-7 years it grows to 9-10 feet tall and produces the most amazing delicately shaped flowers.

However, discouragement is never far away from most people. Many are knocked off course. They are waiting for help. Many have become side-tracked, wandering and drifting and they actually accomplish very little. But the church needs members to dust them down, pick them up and help them to make good decisions.  

• They make sure no one tries to get even.

Do you remember when Jesus said something like give your other cheek to be slapped; give the shirt-stealer your coat as well; if you are forced to go an extra mile then go two? It is the upside down Kingdom that the Church belongs to and who its members focus on which make the church great! This new culture says something like this: “I will not do life like you do life. I belong to a different kingdom to you. I choose a higher level. Not out of arrogance or pompous attitude but simply because I will not stoop down to a level of the world which says I should retaliate by ‘hitting your cheek or saying NO to my shirt, that mile, that ask or the loan. Look down on me, make me look unequal to you and my response to you will show the world that we are indeed not equal. Make my life hard and I will expose your injustice by making your life easy. Make me look like some cattle carrying your bags for a mile (the Romans practiced conscription amongst the citizens) and I will show you I will not be demeaned for I will go the extra mile. My generosity will defeat your conscription. Humiliate me but I will not be humiliated in my heart. My humanity will expose your violent humanity by revealing a bigger heart than what is being shown. I will fight within the Kingdom of Jesus not within your kingdom.” Can you imagine being in such a church?!

For those who don’t want to be like a doormat then decide to be a shoe polisher as well and you will turn the demeaning kingdom upside down!

The final two tomorrow!

Last night I had a zoom call with a Church Leadership Team at the invitation of their 2 Pastors who were not there. It was to hear of the development of the leadership of the church in the years to come but it was done in this way so that I could ask questions freely and no one would be able to say decisions were unilaterally forced through. Speaking with them one thought was running through my mind and it was this: “I want to be part of this church!” The things that I will write this morning I could see the majority in these people. It isn’t the advertisements on social media and elsewhere that will attract newcomers to the Church. Nor will it be the online services or the events that take place. But it definitely will be the members and how they speak of their church. It is their attitude and responses to life; their kindness and fondness for people, especially their church. Paul has something to say on this matter having spoken on what a Pastor does (they work hard, they care and they admonish).

“Hold them in the highest regard in love because of their work. Live in peace with each other. ¹⁴ And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone. ¹⁵ Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always strive to do what is good for each other and for everyone else.” (1 Thessalonians 5 v 13-15) The Message says, “Overwhelm them with appreciation and love! Get along among yourselves, each of you doing your part. Our counsel is that you warn the freeloaders to get a move on. Gently encourage the stragglers, and reach out for the exhausted, pulling them to their feet. Be patient with each person, attentive to individual needs. And be careful that when you get on each other’s nerves you don’t snap at each other. Look for the best in each other, and always do your best to bring it out.”

So here are the 10 things that make for a great church and what every Pastor wants of their members!

1. They hold their Pastor in the highest regard because of their work. Just because there are examples of bad leadership where people have been hurt does not take from the fact that the majority of Pastors are loving, caring and work hard for God’s people. I find some of the other cultures of the world who are now sitting in the same church as my own culture are more honouring of their Pastor and are quite shocked when they hear and disrespect or dishonour being spoken. They ‘overwhelm with appreciation and love’ because of the position and the work of their Pastor, something that my own culture sometimes doesn’t do. Thank God that today in most churches we have the cultures of the world to help us!
2. They get along with their Pastor. When I was leading a church we used to have the Imams of the town come into part of the service to see what we were doing. I remember one day an Imam staying for the whole service and afterwards asked if I could help him and the other 10 town Imams bring unity in their mosques and between each other. He had experienced the culture of our people and wanted the same. I explained to him the difficulty for him was that he didn’t believe in what was the conduit for this peace in the church!
3. They warn those who are the ‘freeloaders’. One thing I have noticed recently is that the Church are crying out for members to volunteer for a whole bunch of things. A small number of people (sometimes very small!) are doing all the work and the majority are enjoying the fruit of their labours. Further to this where in the past perhaps their thought was that they were paying for this (a wrong approach to tithing) it can now no longer be said. I have never met a member who didn’t believe in tithing but gave more than 10% to the church they attended. It isn’t the job of the Pastor to warn the idle but Paul says it is the member’s task.
4. They warn those who are trying to cause division. The last 12 years of my Pastorate I developed a group of members who were in retirement, I called them ‘Calebs’ (many of them younger than him granted). I met with them every month for around 4 hours and we prayed together and I shared my life with them, we went on day trips and 5 day holidays, I taught them and presented my dreams for the church with them. What I didn’t realise was that this group of around 20 people became the security guard for my life and the church. They quickly stamped out disruption. They were the ninja bodyguards of the church. Why? They loved what God was doing in the community of the church and they didn’t want it to be destroyed in any way.
5. They encourage the disheartened. For all kinds of reasons on the fringe of any church are the stragglers. It is the members who can play the encouraging role where miracles can happen even for the ‘straggler’. There was a beautiful and powerful moment in Paul’s life when the members were used by God to bring healing to his life. He was in Lystra and had seen God move powerfully with miracles and then this happened: “They stoned Paul and dragged him outside the city, thinking he was dead. But after the disciples had gathered around him, he got up and went back into the city.” (Acts 14:19-20) In the minds of the Jewish crowd Paul was finished, his mouth shut for good, his missionary journey ended, he was dead. That’s what the enemy loves to do with people. Can you imagine what would have happened if Paul was on his own? Of course, he would have died. What makes for a great church are the members who will watch out for those who are alone. They embrace the straggler. They look for those on the edge. They speak to the discouraged and those who have lost heart, those who are dying inside and they gather around them so that they make a full recovery. That’s what makes for a great church.

I will pause there. That’s enough for one day. I will look at the other 5 on the list tomorrow.

Depending on your denomination or church network will depend on what you call them. Priest, Pastor or their personal name who has responsibility for leading the church.

I haven’t ever lived in a time when the role of the ‘pastor’ is under such scrutiny and perhaps rightly so.

In drawing his letter to a close Paul looks at the church and gives his encouragements, firstly to the Pastors and then to the members of the church.

“Now we ask you, brothers and sisters, to acknowledge those who work hard among you, who care for you in the Lord and who admonish you.” (1 Thessalonians 5 v 12)

What does your Pastor do all day? Have you ever thought about it?

1. They work hard.

They are probably doing all or some of this: Prayer, studying and preparing messages, visiting generally, visiting the sick in homes, hospitals and hospices, planning events for the church, sharing the gospel, looking after the church building, keeping a check on the church finances, training of leaders, group meetings from elders to alpha, representing the church in the community (schools work, community events, meeting other ministers of various churches), focusing on missions, thinking of what goes into the church bulletin, national and regional responsibilities and probably lots more. On top of this your Pastor may also be bi-vocational! Depending on the size of the church, where it is and the Pastor’s gifts and abilities will determine if some or all of these functions are done. You might be able to think of even more!

• They care for you.

People are not a commodity to be used as a statistic; or to feed ego; they are people incredibly loved by the Pastor. They know that though they strive to be a good preacher, though they desire to excel in the charismatic gifts and though they pray for more fruit in their evangelistic endeavours, the greatest and most important ability is that of caring for people.  They are concerned that people don’t suffer harm in this journey of life. They have the heart of Christ which of course we all should have but more so in the Pastor.

• They admonish you.

Not many like being told they are wrong. We are not wired to correction. Some ignore. Some raise their voices louder than the voice that is correcting. And some lash out.

What drove Bonhoeffer to return to Germany to try and topple Hitler’s extermination of the Jews? It was this famous quote (in the Cost of Discipleship) he gave: “If I sit next to a madman as he drives a car into a group of innocent bystanders, I can’t, as a Christian, simply wait for the catastrophe, then comfort the wounded and bury the dead. I must try to wrestle the steering wheel out of the hands of the driver.” 

It is a difficult aspect of the role; to admonish. They are God’s people not the Pastor’s people, so they must not be abused spiritually or manipulated for gain. It is God’s church, not the Pastors church, they are the body of Christ not just a group of people so they must not be disrespected or hurt. He bought them with His blood not the Pastors  blood. They are of high value to Him, they are precious and treasured so Pastors must handle with care and not make them bleed for He has already bled for them. And yet it is the role of the Pastor to correct where correction is needed.

Work hard, care and admonish, that is the role of the Pastor/leader of the Church. It isn’t easy. Paul says acknowledge them. Honour them. Respect them.

Recently, a Pastor who gives everything into the church God has appointed her to, told me of 2 ladies who left the church. But they did it in style! They arrived just before the service was to start and handed a whole list of reasons why the church would not grow under the Pastor’s leadership. They then walked out only after one of them handed her offering to the Pastor!

If you have to leave Church then at least do it with respect of the office that God has given to work hard for you, care for you and admonish you.

This is what the Pastor does and they need to be honoured as they serve you by serving Christ.

There are 3 qualities that define a Christian. These 3 qualities are what we should be seeing in other believers and demonstrating in our own life. I will embolden them in this next verse.

“But since we belong to the day, let us be sober, putting on faith and love as a breastplate, and the hope of salvation as a helmet.” (1 Thessalonians 5 v 8)

Paul using the analogy of a soldier which he did in his letter to the Ephesians (with different symbols) he wants them staying alert, awake and sober of mind and behaviour.

Here are the 3 things we must take care of whilst we wait:-

1. A breastplate (‘guarding my heart above all things’) of faith. It speaks of my walk with God. My prayer life. My worship life. My awareness of His Spirit in my life. My closeness to Jesus. My copying of Jesus. My language. My behavioural responses. My understanding of where I am at and who I have become. I clothe myself with Christ. I am not unaware of the devils schemes. Voices of accusation penetrate my ears and mind and sometimes I see them from the unlikeliest of places. But I choose not to be clothed by accusation but by my walk with God, my faith.
2. A breastplate of love. The word is Agape. The pinnacle and the foundation of everything. Without it nothing makes sense. This is not a feeling towards the person you are loving but it is a strong commitment that will not let go until that person understands, receives and prospers from the purpose of your love. It is the highest form, of sacrificial commitment love. The cross is how God demonstrated Agape to the world. It is the agape that God has for us and the expectation that we should have for each other. We love each other how God loves us. It isn’t easy. People can be difficult. However agape isn’t based on what we get back in return. We show kindness, speak kindness, respond kindly, we agape every person we come into contact with. Why? Because He first showed agape to us and it flows out of our faith in Him.
3. A helmet of hope of salvation. It is the area that becomes the playground for so many negative thoughts. When people come and say you are not what you should be remind yourself where you now stand. When the voices of doubt say you need to perform and prove yourself in order to be accepted by God then it is a complete lie. Do not listen to that lie. It is a falsehood. Ignore it. You are complete in Him; you are alive in Him; you are free and not afraid; you are a child of God and belong to Him; you are without blame within His love; you have peace with God and the peace of God in your mind; you have the Spirit of God hovering over your life and dwelling in you; you have the Spirits wisdom and understanding for every situation you face; you have the powerful strengthening enabling to be and do whatever needs to happen; you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you; you are chosen by God for this moment; you have everything you need for this life because you have Him; you are a temple of the Holy Spirit; cleansed, forgiven and set aside for a holy life; you are saved by the grace of God. You have hope!

On the day of my daughter’s wedding the greatest concern from the important people of the day was whether or not I was ready in time. There had been a lot of discussion on what I was going to be actually doing in the morning. Apparently I am well-known for getting ready at the last minute and this was a problem. I had offered the good thought that I go for my hair cut in the morning. I hadn’t realised how foolish that was in terms of time. I then suggested I go off for the morning and let the important people get on with things and I come back after I had enjoyed whatever I found to do. My suggestions were going from bad to worse. In the end I was permitted to walk 100 yards from the important people to a café for a full English breakfast. It was wonderful. On my own. Newspaper. Breakfast. And crucially, in sight of the important people. All went well. I was ready.

In the early 70’s Larry Norman sang, ‘I wish we’d all been ready’ and it is a line that has stayed with me all my life. Are you ready for Christ’s return?

“But you, brothers and sisters, are not in darkness so that this day should surprise you like a thief. ⁵ You are all children of the light and children of the day. We do not belong to the night or to the darkness. ⁶ So then, let us not be like others, who are asleep, but let us be awake and sober. ⁷ For those who sleep, sleep at night, and those who get drunk, get drunk at night.” (1 Thessalonians 5 v 4-7)

Here are 7 signs that you are ready for the return of Christ.

1. You are not in darkness, v4. Israel was supposed to be the light (Isaiah 60) but their light had stopped shining and they were walking in darkness. Jesus came as the true light. Where Israel failed He succeeded.
2. You will not be surprised, v4. Though no one knows the date and time, His coming will not be a complete surprise to you, you know He is coming.
3. You are not a child of the night, v5. Venus is known as the morning star as the first to appear after the sun sets or the last to disappear before the sun rises. It heralds of course a new day, hope and a new beginning. At the moment when the night is at its darkest there is a belief that the morning will break soon and the morning star is that sign. His name is not Venus but Jesus! You are a child of the dawn, the new day, Jesus!
4. You are not a child of darkness, v5. You are not characterised by the darkness. When people see you they come to know your character. Character is so more important than your abilities. Your Father is not darkness. You are not a product of that. You are a child of God.
5. You are not like others, v6. This is you: I, the Lord, have called you in righteousness; I will take hold of your hand. I will keep you and will make you to be a covenant for the people and a light for the Gentiles, ⁷ to open eyes that are blind, to free captives from prison and to release from the dungeon those who sit in darkness.’ Isaiah 42:6.
6. You are not asleep, v7. This is a different word to the sleep of death that we have seen in chapter 4. You are alert, awakened to the world you are in. When it goes wrong it is never at the right time. It is either spoiling a positive time or it is a time where we can be the most weak. Be alert. Stand your ground. The next 24 hours starts now and you may not know what it holds but it will have no consideration to what is happening to you. You are not asleep.
7. You are not drunk, v7. You have not lost control, nor your confidence nor an awareness to the context of your life. Rather you understand what the Lord wants of you; you are edified and encouraged by Him and He is the Lord of your life as you live in this difficult world.

How much do you think about it?

A few verses before we read how Paul points to the Christian dead coming with Christ. He has already taught the Thessalonians this and he reiterates that teaching.

“Now, brothers and sisters, about times and dates we do not need to write to you, ² for you know very well that the day of the Lord will come like a thief in the night. ³ While people are saying, “Peace and safety,” destruction will come on them suddenly, as labour pains on a pregnant woman, and they will not escape.” (1 Thessalonians 5 v 1-3)

Christ is returning and it may be in our lifetime!

Here are the 3 words that describe His return:-

1. Suddenly. There are no times and dates available. Whether you think of a thief or a woman in labour it will just happen, suddenly. The question is are you ready for the suddenly?
2. Unexpected. If you knew a thief was coming but you didn’t know when what would you do? Would you cancel your life and spend the entirety not moving out of the house, not properly sleeping, afraid to leave your possessions lest the thief comes when you are away? Is that the life you would choose to live? Or would you secure your house in readiness that the thief could come anytime? So being ready is not just sitting on top of the roof of your house with your eyes wide open waiting for the thief. It is to live your life in preparation by demonstrating you are ready by how we do life.
3. Inevitable. When mothers are expectant it shows. They eat differently, look differently and walk differently! Expectation is hard to hide. But expectation soon turns to inevitable, it is unavoidable, the baby is coming!