So you want to be an apostle?

In Paul’s day as in ours there were spiritual superstars who would boast of their ministries and what they have achieved. 

Paul joins in but not as they expect. 

“To my shame I admit that we were too weak for that! Whatever anyone else dares to boast about – I am speaking as a fool – I also dare to boast about. Are they Hebrews? So am I. Are they Israelites? So am I. Are they Abraham’s descendants? So am I. Are they servants of Christ? (I am out of my mind to talk like this.) I am more. I have worked much harder, been in prison more frequently, been flogged more severely, and been exposed to death again and again. Five times I received from the Jews the forty lashes minus one. Three times I was beaten with rods, once I was pelted with stones, three times I was shipwrecked, I spent a night and a day in the open sea, I have been constantly on the move. I have been in danger from rivers, in danger from bandits, in danger from my fellow Jews, in danger from Gentiles; in danger in the city, in danger in the country, in danger at sea; and in danger from false believers. I have laboured and toiled and have often gone without sleep; I have known hunger and thirst and have often gone without food; I have been cold and naked. Besides everything else, I face daily the pressure of my concern for all the churches. Who is weak, and I do not feel weak? Who is led into sin, and I do not inwardly burn? If I must boast, I will boast of the things that show my weakness. The God and Father of the Lord Jesus, who is to be praised for ever, knows that I am not lying. In Damascus the governor under King Aretas had the city of the Damascenes guarded in order to arrest me. But I was lowered in a basket from a window in the wall and slipped through his hands.”

‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭11‬:‭21‬-‭33‬ ‭

Paul’s boasting is:

Prison time beyond number

Beatings that can’t be counted.

39 lashes from the Jews but times 5.

3 times beaten with rods.

Multiple brushes with death.

Stones once.

Shipwrecked 3 times.

A night and a day trying to survive in the sea.

Danger from rivers.

Danger from robbers.

Danger from the Jews.

Danger from the Gentiles.

Danger in the cities.

Danger in the deserts.

Danger from false leaders.

Toil.

Hardship.

Sleepless nights.

Hunger.

Thirst.

Cold.

“That’s a summary of what it’s been like for me since commencing my apostolic ministry”

Would you say this is success?

Would you want to go to his leadership seminar?

If you were to try and be like Paul, is this what you had in mind?

Only if you know this truth: that sufferings don’t disqualify you from ministry they authenticate it. 

So you want to be an apostle, prophet, pastor or whatever? Or maybe you just want to be known as a successful Christian?

  • Focus more on being honest not successful.
  • Be willing to go through tough moments without giving up your walk with God.
  • Know that your strength is displayed through your weakness.

Then you will have something to boast about.

Who’s a fool?

We are going to read Paul’s use of irony, for he is not being foolish by boasting of who he is and what he does, rather he will speak of his weakness and his sufferings as the strength of his life. That is to come but these verses are the build up to them. 

“I repeat: let no-one take me for a fool. But if you do, then tolerate me just as you would a fool, so that I may do a little boasting. In this self-confident boasting I am not talking as the Lord would, but as a fool. Since many are boasting in the way the world does, I too will boast. You gladly put up with fools since you are so wise! In fact, you even put up with anyone who enslaves you or exploits you or takes advantage of you or puts on airs or slaps you in the face. To my shame I admit that we were too weak for that! Whatever anyone else dares to boast about – I am speaking as a fool – I also dare to boast about.”

‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭11‬:‭16‬-‭21‬ ‭

Who’s a fool?

  • Someone who self-promotes and boasts of their own achievements. 
  • Those who accept smooth-talking deceivers yet question their founding apostle. 
  • Those who are convinced because of flashy confidence over genuine humility. 
  • Someone who allows anyone to enslave and exploit them with rules, marketing or spectacular presentations, rather than understanding that authenticity doesn’t necessarily come within a package of entertainment. 

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  • Does the person speak more of themselves or others?
  • Does the person focus more on appearance than authenticity?
  • Do they love?

Too good to be true.

Paul was defending himself from charismatic infiltrators in the church but also and more importantly for him the very foundation of the gospel he had preached.

“And I will keep on doing what I am doing in order to cut the ground from under those who want an opportunity to be considered equal with us in the things they boast about. For such people are false apostles, deceitful workers, masquerading as apostles of Christ. And no wonder, for Satan himself masquerades as an angel of light. It is not surprising, then, if his servants also masquerade as servants of righteousness. Their end will be what their actions deserve.”

‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭11‬:‭12‬-‭15‬ ‭

Paul said he would keep on not being paid because he was wanting to expose those who deceptively got rich and profited from the gospel.

He doesn’t mince his words. Look again at what he called these deceptive leaders. Then he explains why they are like this. It’s because they’re being used by satan who operates with a counterfeit goodness. The most dangerous lies are those that are 99% true.

So how do we spot these deceivers?

  • they emphasise gifts over character.
  • they are career-minded with selfish ambition.
  • they undermine biblical authority with some claim of new revelation that sits outside the Bible.
  • they create division by setting themselves above everyone else.

Paul says their end will not be good.

Today these verses are as important as when Paul penned them.

  • We must test everything with the Word of God.
  • Look at the character, can you see the fruit of the Spirit.
  • Look at the possible motivations, ask about what they are trying to gain.

Truth will outlast deception, light will dispel darkness, discernment will expose lies, courage will confront the selfishness and a longing for authenticity will serve others. The truth is good.

Happy Father’s Day

Paul is defending not only his message to them in his previous letter but his ministry. His response demonstrates the heart of a servant leader. Today is Father’s day. A day when we celebrate the role of the father. I have just texted a friend to say I was praying for him. He’s a great father but his own experience from his father hasn’t been good. That will be said and felt by many today. I am reading the next few verses through the filter of being a father. I realise it is taking the text out of context which you should never do but it is Father’s Day afterall!

“Was it a sin for me to lower myself in order to elevate you by preaching the gospel of God to you free of charge? I robbed other churches by receiving support from them so as to serve you. And when I was with you and needed something, I was not a burden to anyone, for the brothers who came from Macedonia supplied what I needed. I have kept myself from being a burden to you in any way, and will continue to do so. 10 As surely as the truth of Christ is in me, nobody in the regions of Achaia will stop this boasting of mine. 11 Why? Because I do not love you? God knows I do!” (2 Corinthians 11 v 7-11)

  • A Father lowers himself.
  • A Father doesn’t want payment or reward. For grace to be grace it cannot be repaid.
  • A Father knows the weight of provision and will tent-make taking 2 jobs, he will borrow if necessary.
  • A Father carries good news.
  • A Father may be misunderstood but the cry of his heart will be love. The father’s love might be questioned, the sacrifices go unnoticed, decisions can be misunderstood and yet his heart bleeds love. This is a mirror of the Hevanely Father’s love.
  • A Father knows that at the end of the day true love finds its validation in faithful service, sacrifice and the example of revealing to our children a greater Father than we are.

Happy Father’s Day

The super-leader

Paul’s world and certainly the Corinthian church suffered from the obsession of polished communicators carrying some charismatic flair. Sound familiar?

What was Paul’s response?

“I do not think I am in the least inferior to those ‘super-apostles’. I may indeed be untrained as a speaker, but I do have knowledge. We have made this perfectly clear to you in every way.” 2 Corinthians‬ ‭11‬:‭5‬-‭6‬ ‭

How do we become a ‘super-apostle’?

  1. Eloquence over effectiveness. It’s not what you know it’s how you say it. How you look is everything. These are the truths to hold on to if you want to become super.
  2. Speak more about your strengths than your weaknesses. Awareness of other people and not yourself. Hold on to these truths if you can any to become super.

But who really wants to be known as a super this or that? The Apostle certainly didn’t.

The jealousy of a godly father.

In a few days time we will again be celebrating Father’s Day. It is always a day mixed with emotions for so many people. 

These next few verses are certainly charged with emotion. 

The Apostle Paul is reaching out to the Church in Corinth with all the love he can muster.

Using imagery familiar to his culture (and many others today) he describes himself as a father who brought the Church, the bride, to Christ. 

“I am jealous for you with a godly jealousy. I promised you to one husband, to Christ, so that I might present you as a pure virgin to him. But I am afraid that just as Eve was deceived by the snake’s cunning, your minds may somehow be led astray from your sincere and pure devotion to Christ. For if someone comes to you and preaches a Jesus other than the Jesus we preached, or if you receive a different spirit from the Spirit you received, or a different gospel from the one you accepted, you put up with it easily enough.” 2 Corinthians‬ ‭11‬:‭2‬-‭4‬ ‭

This arranged marriage sees the father bringing his daughter as a pure bride to the groom, Christ. In the same way Paul is saying we should present ourselves to Christ with purity. Apart from the obvious behavioural purity, there are still today the same false teachings, competing loyalties and compromises and this devotion to Christ is in danger of being corrupted. This is why Paul has a godly jealousy to protect this from happening.

He uses the story of Eve who was deceived by the serpent and says we are still in danger. The devil doesn’t change does he? He still brings doubts to God’s Word or brings alternative interpretations of it to fit our desires and pleasures and what pains him the most is that they ‘put up with it easily enough.’

Paul’s jealousy is good. We should have this jealousy for each other. It means to care enough for each other’s walk with God. As a father’s jealousy for His children to be the best they can be we too should contend and urge one another in love. Our lives matter to each other and they matter to Christ. Paul calls out what he sees they are falling away in and it helps us as we look out for each other. 

A different Jesus- the cross for our sins and the resurrection for our new life from a Christ who is the Son of God, a member of the trinity, God Himself.

A different Spirit – experiencing the work and manifestations of the Spirit who always glorifies Christ and conforms us into His own image. 

A different Gospel – we are saved by grace through faith in Christ alone.

Anything but the above is different to the truth and we like a father should have a jealousy to protect one another. 

Vulnerability

A reminder of some of the problems in the Corinthians Church:-

False apostles had infiltrated the Church; they had undermined Paul’s authority and questioning his credentials; these ‘super-apostles’ (Paul’s words) demanded financial support (as opposed Paul’s tent-making), boasted great ministry profiles and declared that Paul was foolish, weak and not a true apostle; and the Church was being deceived and began to preach a different gospel and follow a different Christ.

“I hope you will put up with me in a little foolishness. Yes, please put up with me!” (2 Corinthians 11 v 1)

This verse has led me to see the importance of vulnerability.

  • Authenticity requires uncomfortable transparency.
  • Honest may feel foolish and dignity can be a temptation.
  • Love risks misunderstanding.
  • Genuine concern for others doesn’t focus on how it may look but on the result of the act of love.
  • Deception is always wrapped in impressive wrapping.
  • The super-apostles were charismatic, credentialed and convincing.
  • Care that is genuine gets hurt at times.
  • Whenever someone left my church they would always give their reason by starting with, “Now Pastor don’t take this personal …” What they failed to understand was that my care for them was not a professional service, I was all-in, this was a genuine personal care. I had poured out my heart in caring for them.
  • Vulnerability comes with the territory if we are going to be faithful to the truth.
  • Vulnerable because you take a stand for what you know is right.
    • Vulnerable because you are the only voice in the room speaking a different message.
  • Vulnerable because you are feeling uncomfortable being so courageous.

How popular are you?

How many followers on Instagram do you have? How many likes did you get on that facebook post?

Are you the best at what you do? Is your church the largest, the liveliest, the loudest?

Is your garden better than next doors?

The Corinthian Church had been influenced by boastful leaders who had created their own criteria for successful spiritual authority and then in effect graded themselves on the back of comparison.

The question isn’t whether we are better than others but are we faithful in what God has called us to do.

“We do not dare to classify or compare ourselves with some who commend themselves. When they measure themselves by themselves and compare themselves with themselves, they are not wise. 13 We, however, will not boast beyond proper limits, but will confine our boasting to the sphere of service God himself has assigned to us, a sphere that also includes you. 14 We are not going too far in our boasting, as would be the case if we had not come to you, for we did get as far as you with the gospel of Christ. 15 Neither do we go beyond our limits by boasting of work done by others. Our hope is that, as your faith continues to grow, our sphere of activity among you will greatly expand, 16 so that we can preach the gospel in the regions beyond you. For we do not want to boast about work already done in someone else’s territory. 17 But, “Let the one who boasts boast in the Lord.” 18 For it is not the one who commends himself who is approved, but the one whom the Lord commends.” (2 Corinthians 10 v 12-18)

What is the answer to this ‘unwise’ competitive comparison?

  1. Know what God has called you to do, v 13 It will be different to others but the call is to be faithful in obedience to what God has asked of you.
  2. Know the boundaries, v14 Don’t reach beyond the grace and gift of your life. If accusations come then you know you didn’t grab at where you are nor manipulate your way in to that place, it was God who opened that door for you.
  3. Know that you are just a part of the work of God not the whole, v15. God uses other people and so collaboration is good for the soul
  4. Know that God calls beyond your boundaries, v16. This is not a contradiction on what has been said before about staying in your lane. We are content to stay but we know there is a world out there that needs Jesus and we are open for God to call us anywhere at any time.
  5. Know the commendation of the Lord is all that matters, v17-18. God’s approval comes from the testing in His fire and is based on our faithfulness to His call.

So?

  • We don’t measure our worth by others achievements or praise.
  • We acknowledge our God given area of influence.
  • We celebrate others success without being intimidated.
  • We recognize that ultimately we have an audience of One, God.

What do people think about you v the reality of your calling.

This title sums up the challenge for the apostle. He faced the challenge from his critics regarding his authenticity. They said he was only strong in his letters but in person he was weak and unimpressive. Here is how he responds.

“You are judging by appearances. If anyone is confident that they belong to Christ, they should consider again that we belong to Christ just as much as they do. So even if I boast somewhat freely about the authority the Lord gave us for building you up rather than tearing you down, I will not be ashamed of it. I do not want to seem to be trying to frighten you with my letters. For some say, ‘His letters are weighty and forceful, but in person he is unimpressive and his speaking amounts to nothing.’ Such people should realise that what we are in our letters when we are absent, we will be in our actions when we are present.”

‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭10‬:‭7‬-‭11‬ ‭

His response gives lessons to us all whether we are leaders or not.

  1. Don’t judge by appearance.

Effectiveness is not a result of charisma but rather character and consistency. 

Effectiveness is not a result of having a great social media presence about you and your ministry but it is about how good you are at building others up, promoting others and encouraging others.

2. Being who God has called you to be far outweighs any position or title you have been given.

    Paul knew that he had been given authority as a leader from God alone. 

    This authority was to build up and not tear down. So the next time you witness a destructive believer then remind them of these verses and suggest they get involved in construction instead.

    3. Let your texts and emails carry the same tone as your in-person response. 

      Paul gives them assurance that he will have authentic consistency. He will be the same in person as well as writer of letters to them. Confusion is created when we send strong texts but are silent when we need to speak. 

      Paul is not ashamed of his authority given by God and he doesn’t apologise because he will not be intimidated by criticism. Don’t let anyone’s criticism force you to change who you are and what you have been called to do. However …

      a. Check your motives – is your focus to build up others?

      b. Ensure consistency – your private and public life need to align.

      c. Listen to criticism – some of it may be healthy and others will need to be discarded.

      d. Stand firm in your calling – above all make sure criticism doesn’t knock you off course.

      The important thing to remember is not whether or not you will face criticism because you will. But how will you respond when it comes? Will it come from the knowledge that you have been called by God, that you are consistent publicly and privately and that you know your focus is the building up and not tearing down of others.

      The greatest battle is in our thoughts

      “We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ. And we will be ready to punish every act of disobedience, once your obedience is complete.” 2 Corinthians‬ ‭10‬:‭5‬-‭6‬ ‭

      We demolish:

      1. Arguments – everything that opposes God’s truth and elevates human wisdom over revelation from God. 
      2. Pretensions – proud thoughts that are elevated above what God’s way and thoughts are.

      How?

      We demolish by taking every thought captive.

      We demolish by our ongoing transformation of our obedient life revealing areas within us that are still rebellious.

      We demolish by surrendering what we think before the Lordship of Christ. 

      Win the battle for your thoughts today