What’s more important to you; your rights and freedom to be who you want to be or the possibility of hurting others?

That question sums up this next long passage which needs to be read as a whole to understand what Paul is wanting to say.

We will see later that Paul is actually very much against eating food sacrificed to idols and he doesn’t pull any punches. However he first appeals for love and unity in this divided church. For Paul, relationships trump rights. Paul knows we can lead people away from Christianity and return them to the defilement that they repented of. How? By knowing what we know and carrying out the rights to live free from religious restrictions. One more thing, it might be helpful when reading of ‘food sacrificed to idols’ to keep that in mind along with another action that you know now is not a sin. It might just help you when reading what Paul says:-

 “So then, about eating food sacrificed to idols: We know that “An idol is nothing at all in the world” and that “There is no God but one.” For even if there are so-called gods, whether in heaven or on earth (as indeed there are many “gods” and many “lords”), yet for us there is but one God, the Father, from whom all things came and for whom we live; and there is but one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom all things came and through whom we live. But not everyone possesses this knowledge. Some people are still so accustomed to idols that when they eat sacrificial food they think of it as having been sacrificed to a god, and since their conscience is weak, it is defiled. But food does not bring us near to God; we are no worse if we do not eat, and no better if we do. Be careful, however, that the exercise of your rights does not become a stumbling block to the weak. 10 For if someone with a weak conscience sees you, with all your knowledge, eating in an idol’s temple, won’t that person be emboldened to eat what is sacrificed to idols? 11 So this weak brother or sister, for whom Christ died, is destroyed by your knowledge. 12 When you sin against them in this way and wound their weak conscience, you sin against Christ. 13 Therefore, if what I eat causes my brother or sister to fall into sin, I will never eat meat again, so that I will not cause them to fall.” (1 Corinthians 8 v 4-13)

We know idols don’t exist. When I use the word ‘we’ I mean those of us who don’t worship idols. But some people think they do (Hindus for example). However, they still pale into insignificance compared to the only God the Father and God the Son.

How would it be if a Hindu got saved and left their old defiled life but then saw church members going into their old temple to eat the food sacrificed to idols?

When people come to Christ they leave a defiled life and that can mean a whole bunch of behaviours. How do they feel if they see a Christian picking up certain practices of their previous defiled life? They may think that Christianity plus defilement is okay. They may think it is okay to go back to that defilement. At that point freedom has become more important than relationship.

Those with a ‘weak conscience’ who are still vulnerable to certain defilement need the help of those who have the knowledge that it makes no difference if we eat food sacrificed to idols or if we don’t. That help is not primarily knowledge but it is love. Knowledge for the knowledgeable means the vulnerable can step up into freedom. But read verse 13 again. If love is the driving force and not knowledge then those who feel they have freedom actually don’t. They learn to sacrifice their freedom so that others will not stumble in their walk with Christ. Isn’t that the message of the cross? We do need theology, we need to grow in knowledge but it must sit in our nail-scarred hands. In that way we will be the example of Christ who put down his rights for us all because of the love of God.

The answer to the question is hurting others. We have a responsibility. Our walk with Christ is not an individual walk. It is done in community. The weak and vulnerable are watching and listening to you. Teach them but first love them. If you don’t you will be responsible for hurting them.

Just stay as you are whether married, single, divorced, widowed, remarried or whatever …

When I get married I will walk with God. If I was only single then I would walk more closely with the Lord. I’ll wait for the divorce to come through and then I will be free to see God use me. If I get remarried then I will back on track and God will start to work through me again. Nonsense. Just stay as you are. Stop playing around with whatever circumstance you find yourself in. Ignore whether others are more happier than you. For you, right now, you can have a walk with Jesus no matter your circumstance. That’s the pastoral advice from the Apostle.

“Nevertheless, each person should live as a believer in whatever situation the Lord has assigned to them, just as God has called them. This is the rule I lay down in all the churches. 18 Was a man already circumcised when he was called? He should not become uncircumcised. Was a man uncircumcised when he was called? He should not be circumcised. 19 Circumcision is nothing and uncircumcision is nothing. Keeping God’s commands is what counts. 20 Each person should remain in the situation they were in when God called them. 21 Were you a slave when you were called? Don’t let it trouble you—although if you can gain your freedom, do so. 22 For the one who was a slave when called to faith in the Lord is the Lord’s freed person; similarly, the one who was free when called is Christ’s slave. 23 You were bought at a price; do not become slaves of human beings. 24 Brothers and sisters, each person, as responsible to God, should remain in the situation they were in when God called them.” (1 Corinthians 7 v 17-24)

So embrace your current situation, the season you are in, who you are. Just stay as you are. God can use you right now as you are. Stop trying to change to prove or earn favour. It’s just tiring.

Of course Paul isn’t saying remain in a sinful profession or continue to live sinful lives. We are called out from such. Neither are we being forbidden from changing our status whether married or single. This is about motive.

If you’re waiting for something perfect to come along to begin to live out your faith and work for God then you will be waiting a long time.

Afterall transformation happens not because you have changed your external circumstances but by allowing God to work through them.

One more important thing to ponder on is verse 23. In a culture where everyone was used to seeing men and women in the market place with price tags around their necks, Paul says ‘do not become slaves of human beings’. This command is pertinent to us not because of the threat of literally being a slave but because of the various potential masters that overshadow our lives:-

  • The opinion and expectation of others.
  • Cultural pressures and societal norms.
  • Religious legalism and human traditions.
  • Unhealthy relationships.
  • Material possessions and the pursuit of them.
  • The approval of others.

Just stay as you are. That list is nonsense. It is degrading. It is enslaving. You belong to Christ. He bought you for a price. It cost Him. So stay as you are.

The human body does matter

“Everyone does it”

“It’s not a big deal, it’s just fun”

“I was just being honest”

“The ends justify the means”

“Life’s too short to be nice”

“This is my life”

“Gender is who you are and sexuality is who you want”

How do we live out our Christian walk in a world full of slogans that indicate that everyone can do what they want, morality is not important and there are no rules?

This is not a new problem. This is what Paul was addressing to the Church in Corinth. His words are relevant today as they were two thousand years ago. Even then his world had slogans they lived by and in this section he addresses them.

“I have the right to do anything,” you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything”—but I will not be mastered by anything. 13 You say, “Food for the stomach and the stomach for food, and God will destroy them both.” The body, however, is not meant for sexual immorality but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. 14 By his power God raised the Lord from the dead, and he will raise us also. 15 Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never! 16 Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, “The two will become one flesh.” 17 But whoever is united with the Lord is one with him in spirit. 18 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. 19 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 20 you were bought at a price. Therefore honour God with your bodies. (1 Corinthians 6 v 12-20)

The slogans, (v12):-

  • I have the right to do anything – I can have sex with whoever I want. This is still the message today.
  • Food for the stomach – You’re hungry so you eat and therefore you crave sex so you go and get it.

Paul’s response is this (v12):-

  • The real question isn’t, ‘Can I do this?’ but rather, ‘Does this benefit me and others?’
  • True freedom includes the wisdom to recognize what might control us.
  • The human body does matter.

It is not a mere shell or even a prison for the soul which some philosophies still declare today. Our bodies matter to God.

True freedom is found not in doing whatever we want but aligning our lives – both spirit and body – with the purposes of God.

If we truly believed that our bodies were not our personal property to do whatever we wanted with and God had our spirit but that our bodies were members of Christ’s body on earth, how might our lives look? Especially if we then look through Paul’s list of: “sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers” (v9-10).

This was Paul’s argument. The human body and what we do with it does matter to God.

  • Our physical bodies will be raised with Christ, v14. Our bodies matter eternally. They will be perfected in a resurrected form. They have spiritual significance. We are members of Christ’s body (v15) so why go to a prostitute to unite with her? Why use Christ’s body to steal and cheat others?
  • Our physical bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit and we are meant to glorify God in every aspect of life, v19. If sex is happening within that temple then don’t cheapen it. That was not what it was created for.
  • Our physical bodies do not belong to us, v19. We are not the owners. We are the tenants of our bodies. We don’t do what we want. We don’t sleep with whoever we want.
  • Our physical bodies and our spirits were purchased (with the blood of Jesus). Understanding of all this is given when we come back to the foot of the cross.

So we see, the human body does matter. We rise today as the living, breathing, deciding, acting, member of Christ’s body in our world today. Let our world see Jesus!