When it all becomes too much. When it looks like the behaviour of your manager, parent, pastor or neighbour is not getting better but worse. It isn’t over.
“And so upon you will come all the righteous blood that has been shed on earth, from the blood of righteous Abel to the blood of Zechariah son of Berekiah, whom you murdered between the temple and the altar. Truly I tell you, all this will come on this generation. (Matthew 23 v 35-36)
Judgment will come to those narcissistic leaders who have abused their position by spiritually, physically, sexually, emotionally, mentally abusing those they were meant to Shepherd. It isn’t over. Their sin will get the better of them and will destroy them. Conflict resolution will not help them.